1 – Shift your dating mindset

Confirmation bias in dating is REAL. It causes people to search for, favour, interpret, and recall information in a way that confirms their pre-existing beliefs.

If you believe there are no “quality” people out there, you will not find them.

If you believe dating is awful and a chore, it will continue to feel like that and you will have negative experiences.

If you subconsciously believe you are unworthy of a happy, healthy relationship, you will continue to attract people who are not good for you.

Mindset work is not easy but it is everything.

2 – Be proactive and intentional

And while you working on that more positive mindset, put a real and actionable dating strategy in place with focus and follow through. Here are a couple of ideas…

Include something different. Put the time in on the apps but also come up with a plan to meet people in real life. Or work with a Matchmaker who will conduct a private and personalized search on your behalf.

Instead of fitting in dates when you have “free” time here and there, actually make space in your schedule to date. And then put in the effort to meet new people.

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